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Tom:
Yeah, real weak.
Bill Twiffer:
It sounds terrible. But see, people don’t understand that’s
the way 90 percent of people talk. Everybody you come in contact
with they upswing. And why is that? I’ll tell you why it is.
As human beings we want two things, love and acceptance. It's easier
to say, “Does the soup taste okay?” Then to say, “Isn’t
it the best soup you’ve every tasted?” With your head
nodding up and down. If - I’ll tell you what, if a waiter
or waitress came up to me and said, “Isn’t that the
best soup you’ve ever tasted?” I’d have to give
them a standing ovation. Because I think that's great language patterns.
I listen to that and I think, “Oh my gosh.” You just
want to agree with them. Even if it's not the best soup, because
you're thinking, “What the heck this guys having a good day.
I don’t want to wreck it.” Right. So we want to be there
and we want to make sure that we hear this language and we start
learning these language patterns.
So let's talk now, real quick about embedded commands. Embedded
commands are one to four word groups. They're one to four word groups
that order you to do something and they make sense on their own.
They order you to do something and they make sense on their own.
They bypass conscious reasoning and speak directly to the subconscious
mind. The subconscious mind just takes stuff in all the time. And
these embedded commands get people to do stuff. They're like dropping
little time bombs in their subconscious mind. You don’t instantly
see a reaction when you drop them. They grow into an action, is
what they do. And this step is around everybody in the call every
single day on the radio and every single day on TV. It's around
them all the time. Bow Flex commercial. Will you decide today to
buy this, you’ll know you need this. Let me say it again.
When you decide today to look like this, you’ll know you’ll
need this. And what that is is they're showing this picture of this
real ripped man with big muscles or this woman that’s real
fit. They're showing that picture up there when they're saying when
you decide to look like - when you decide today to look like this
you’ll know you’ll need this. Then they show a picture
of the Bow Flex. And this stuff is around you all the time. Then
they say, “Act now. Get in shape. Take advantage of this offer.
Do it.” See they're all embedded commands. And people go,
“Hey, I think I'm going to do that. I want to look like that
person.” So let me give you some examples of some embedded
commands. Do as I say. Feel compelled. Decide now. Sign the contract.
Trust me. Trust me is a tough one. You’ll really got to be
careful using trust me, because every time you use trust me 99 percent
of people have heard in their mind from parents, when people say
trust me, don’t trust them. When people try to give you candy,
if you don’t know them don’t take it. Don’t ride
with strangers. People say honestly they must have just lied to
you before that. They have all these preprogrammed things in their
mind these beliefs that are really myths. Yet, they believe them
to be true. They believe them to be their reality. So when you hear
trust me immediately, your conscious mind says to your subconscious
in a nanosecond. It says, “Hey subconscious, tell me a little
bit about people that say trust me.” And it bomp, bomp, bomp
comes back with an answer and says, “Hey listen don’t
trust him. Remember what your parents said? Don’t trust people
that say trust me.” So immediately it throws up red flags.
That happens in such an instance that you don’t even know
it's going on. But that’s what happens. Your conscious mind
is the keyboard in the computer and your subconscious mind is the
hard drive. That’s the thing that keeps everything running.
Is your subconscious mind. It's records everything you ever said.
Everything you’ve ever done. Everything you’ve ever
seen. Everything you’ve ever felt is in your subconscious
mind. It's real easy to pull stuff up which triggers anchors. Because
I could go ahead and put up a song on the radio. Let's just say
you have a song goes up on the radio. You're driving down the freeway
in your car. A song comes up from 20 years ago. All of a sudden
you think, I remember this song. And in five seconds you're singing
it word for word. But ten minutes before if somebody would have
asked you about that song you wouldn’t have remembered it.
What happens here the tone and the melody of the song is the trigger
that brings everything back to the conscious mind. You just start
singing it word for word. This kind of stuff works just like that.
Let me give you some examples. “Listen trust me.” See
that’s a real tough way to start out. I would never start
out with one that say’s listen trust me. But I put one in
for an example so you can hear right off the bat we’re telling
them to do two things but both of them are really like a double
negative. “Listen” you don’t want to tell people
that. Because immediately it throws it in their direction and they're
like backwards. They're just back on their heels thinking, “Why
do I have to listen to you.” And then they say, “Trust
you.” “I don’t want to trust you.” So I
throw this in as an example, because I want you to hear this so
you don’t use language this way. “Listen trust me. When
you decide now to take this offer you can final close the file on
that property. Won’t that be great?” See, listen, trust
me is tough to do. So I would take listen trust me out of here and
I put. “Bob, when you decide now, to take this offer you can
finally close the file on that property. Won’t that be great?”
So decide now and take this offer are embedded commands. They're
one to four word groups that stand alone and make sense on their
own. And then at the end “Won’t that be great?”
that’s the assumptive tag phrase. So what I'm trying to do
folks, is get you to understand some of these language patterns,
because they're out there all the time. I can't tell you what to
do. I mean, you have to convince yourself, Tom, to take action
and get the ball rolling. See, instead of just saying, “Well,
Tom, it's up to you. It’s your decision, what do you want
to do?” That’s normal conversation. When you start using
things like this, “I can't tell you what to do, I mean you
have to convince yourself, Tom, to take action and get the ball
rolling. I mean, you want out of your situation, don’t you?
Great let's get started now and make the right decision. Okay?”
You see how we’re using those language patterns, Tom?
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